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I am a Vampyrian Universalist Dark Druid Goth minister as well as a Ghetto Geeky, Autistic, Vampyre, Rivethead, Traditional, Hippie Goth, Vegetarian, "Vampyrian" Graver", Pansexual Experimental Sound Artist, treehugger AKA DarkDruidGoth. I am the Old school DarkDruidGoth Vampyre and Proud PhreaK, and the founder of Vampyrian TempleUVUP: NOW since Dec. 18th 2003. I have been in the gothic community since the first Outland (mid 90's), the pagan community since 2002, as well as the Vampire community since mid 2000. Since 2012 I have been working on the Vampire/Vampyre, Pagan, and Goth Alliance to unite all communities and not just devote myself to the Vamp pagan and goth alliance at: as well as this one...


I love topics about possession, the supernatural, Vampyres, Otherkin, Dark Spirituality, and Darkness ect...


My Blogs/Writings: 




My youtube Channel


My sound art band Vampyrian-Trance:


I am mostly volunteering, signing petitions, writing, working on my sites, the Vampyre pagan and goth alliance, TempleUVUP and helping others that have gone through the same crap as me. You can get get a hold of me contact me here at 740-990-6260, or email me at: [email protected]


I am ordained a and can do what various spiritual tasks as well as legal wedding but only in Ohio as I cannot afford all 50 states lol:





My 3 favorite bands are Velvet Acid Christ, Blutengel, Inkubus Sukkubus even though they are completely different.

My favorite singers are: Andrew Eldritch, Robert Smith, and Candia Ridley...






Vampyres don't just feed on blood - they feed on life...

How does one know if they are a Vampyre? I still and will always believe that Vampyres need energy from other sources because their body does not have enough for what we are. I also believe we are spiritually different than humans and that what we are is a spiritual condition. The simple Definition of Vampyre is one who needs energy (Life force) because our bodies don't have enough because of what we are (Spirit or Soul). We take it through the blood (some of the life force or human energy is in the blood) or be the taking of it directly. Most Vampyres are tired and drained when alone but are usually hyper, often have high anxiety, and feel high and extremely powerful when around large crowds....

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D.A.A.D. = Dark Alternatives Against Discrimination on FaceBook

Dark Aspies ect. on FaceBook  
Dark Aspies ect. on Vampyrian TempleUVUP   
Dark Aspies ect. on VampGothAlliance


My Interests are:

BLOOD, Vampyres, ADHD, Autism, Serial Killers, PAGANISM, Vampyrism, Dark Humor, Possession, Vampire Erotica, LAYLA - LILITH - LILITU, SEKHMET, INDUSTRIAL, GOTHIC, German EBM, Independent Graphics, SOUND, and Media ART (Independent MUSIC and Media), BEAUTIFUL PALE SKIN, Hannibal Lecter, SERIAL KILLERS, INKUBUS SUKKUBUS, Robert Smith, Hoodies, Trent Rezner, THE HAMILTONS, QUEEN OF THE DAMNED, PHANTOM OF THE OPERA, DRACULA, PERCUSSION, LAYLA (MY DARK MOTHER), HECATE, FREYA, ANUBIS, SET, DEMON UNDER GLASS, Tim Burton, Bela Lugosi, Edward Scissorhands, Edgar Allen Poe, Christopher Walken, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Interview With The Vampire, Nightmare Before Christmas, SADISM, SAMHAIN, Halloween, Eyeliner, Gothic Fashion, Synthesizers, Expressionism, SINGING, PERFORMING, George A. Romero, David Bowie, Christian Death, BELLA MORTE, Dead Can Dance, Musicals, Safety pins, Buttons, My Scottish German Heritage, Psychic Abilities, Energy, Hearses, UK, Christina Ricci, Sharp objects, Dancing, Norse Celtic Mythology, Cats, JOHNNY DEPP, Prince, Necks, Breasts, Tantra, Empathic, Reincarnation, Theology, Lyrics, Lost Girl... 


As far as entertainment goes:

I like Vampires, the Supernatural, Dark Humor, Slapstick, and Documentaries. But mostly really Dark Obscure funny Stuff...

My favorite shows and movies are:

God Bless America (2011), Cottage Country, Little Shop of Horrors (original 86 one when the plant took over the world and everyone died), THE NIGHT CLERK, Shaun of the dead, What we do in the shadows (series and movie), The Underworld movies, The Matrix trilogy, the X-men movies, Life force, Phantom of the opera,  Carnival Row, Avatar, Fargo (the series and movie), The Nightmare before Christmas, Ash vs the evil dead as well as evil dead movies, preacher, LIFE FORCE. My favorite more realistic vampire movies are movies are THE HAMILTON'S – MARTIN - DAWN - HABIT - THIRST (1979) (At least the Vampires let the humans have pleasure as they feed from them unlike humans as they torture there food; however I do disagree with forced awakening), queen of the danmed, How to be a Serial Killer! (Great funny ass shit)...

I also like Avatar, and LIFE FORCE. My favorite more realistic vampire movies are movies are THE HAMILTON'S – MARTIN - DAWN - HABIT - THIRST (1979) (At least the Vampires let the humans have pleasure as they feed from them unlike humans as they torture there food; however I do disagree with forced awakening), How to be a Serial Killer! (Great funny ass shit), BLOOD TIES, THE DEATHS OF IAN STONE, PHANTOM OF THE OPERA, AVATAR, DRACULA, QUEEN OF THE DAMNED, ALL Hannibal Lecter and Serial killer Movies\TV Shows, Dylan Dog (Dead of Night), THE OMEGA MAN (I prefer the Vampires or at least the leader Spiritual Vampire to the humans who created the plague), DRACULA 2000, SUCK, The PERFECT CREATURE, VAMPYRES, ULTRAVIOLET, VAMPIRES, Perfect Sisters (2014 but they should have gotten away with it!) The UNDERWORLD MOVIES, What we do in the shadows, Doctor Strange, The Usual Suspects, DEMON UNDER GLASS, LEGEND, EDWARD SCISSORHANDS, THE LOST BOYS, INTERVIEW THE VAMPIRE, CANADIAN BACON, ED WOOD FILMS, THE DARK HALF, Night of the Living Dead Films, POWDER, THE ADDAMS FAMILY, THE ADDICTION, THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW, CORPSE BRIDE, NIGHTMARE BEFORE CHRISTMAS, VAMPIRE JOURNALS, V FOR VENDETTA, VAMPIRE INTERVIEWS, the ADDICTION, DOGMA, CLERKS (both), BILLY MADISON, WHITE ZOMBIE, SID and NANCY, ALMOST ANYTHING BY MICHEAL MOORE, 12 MONKEYS, EMBRACE OF THE VAMPIRE, THE JERK, SOUTH PARK THE MOVIE, PURPLE RAIN, ECT... 



I DON’T LIKE MANY NEW SHOWS. I LIKED TRUE BLOOD, ANGEL, FOREVER KNIGHT, GATES, BLOOD TIES, FRINGE, LOST GIRL, (real) Humans, The 100, American Horror Story, Continuum, HANNIBAL, Grimm, The Gifted, & the ADDAMS FAMILY. The only things new I like are: Supernatural, Carnival Row, American Horror Story, 12 Monkeys, Fargo, Legacies, What we do in the shadows, and Vikings...



My Favorite Books: The Vampyrian Shadow book, pagan and earth-centered voices in Unitarian Universalism, The Druidry Handbook, and books about real Vampyres, paganism (esp Druidry but also Darker paths as well), theology, goths, animal rights, ect...


Morbid Obscurity, Peace, Love, Death, and Respect...




I am starving here in a dead land…



***I am a Vegetarian Vampyre: I do not eat dead flesh (dead animal meat) However I do feed on humans but at least they are still alive and do not suffer...


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On Bullying In the Occult And Pagan Communities as well as the GVC
Posted by JP the DDG Aspie Vamp on Tuesday, August 25, 2020 at 8:17:22 PM


with additions by Rev. JP VDDG


It should go without saying that bullies are everywhere. You’ll find them in the workplace and pretty much anywhere online. Bullying has always been a thing. So why should it be any different in the the pagan/polytheist, witch, or occult communities? And if it is different, how is it different exactly?
The forms of bullying can be more complex
In any spiritual community, there will be people whose voices will be heard more frequently than others. They might have a blog (like me), teach classes, be book authors, lead groups and/or rituals, etc. In these instances, it’s very easy for someone in such positions of power to abuse it. Or worse yet, desire power enough to abuse people for it. Obviously when religion is involved, the bullying can be even messier than under normal circumstances, especially when the power dynamic is unequal.
In the workplace, there are bosses who bully their employees. I’ve been a victim of such bullying in the past. Again, this is an unfortunately common and toxic dynamic involving people engaging in abuses of power. When religion gets involved, this is how cults, cult leadership, and cults of personality can form. And like in a professional environment, it can also get very personal.
Our communities don’t have outlets for handling bullying, and it’s a real problem
Some groups will have codes of conduct. In them there is often a step by step process for handling personal issues within a group. Of course that’s if you’re in a formal group to begin with. Online, the notion of groups and belonging gets murky, complex, and has no real definition beyond things such as “Facebook groups”. A lot of people come to these social media outlets already feeling isolated due to a lack of local community, and of course none of this helps. And of course they are looking to take advantage of that situation and of you.
When I google bullying in spiritual groups online, all of the essays and blog posts address it from a Christian standpoint. There are countless articles but solely from a Christian perspective. Googling bullying in pagan groups, I see only a few blog posts. There is one in particular that delves into the types of bullying that can exist, including intimidation, coercion, verbal and physical abuse, and isolation. Our groups have varying power structures and also potentially involve other spiritual dimensions, such as the use of magic in order to maintain power and bully others.
When magic is also involved, it’s not pretty
In spiritual groups people can be threatened with the notion of being cut off from contact with their community, their means of learning and growth, and the outlet for their particular spiritual path. But when magic and witchcraft get involved, there’s a whole other power dynamic present that makes things even more uncomfortable. I’ve personally known of a number of witches and magicians who have abused magic in order to control other people and then send hexes or curses their way when they have difficulties controlling them.
I’d like to say that these sorts of practices are uncommon but unfortunately they are not. Some even brag about hexing or cursing people online and use it as further means of intimidation. I can’t say that there aren’t people out there with the very real ability to do magical harm, and I highly recommend learning how to protect yourself against such things.
New Age bullying continues to be a very real thing
This is a very specific form of bullying typically seen in a lot of spiritual as well as occult communities. Unlike traditional forms of bullying that surround themselves with negativity, New Age bullying relies on sugar coating their bullying with superficial sweetness and light. Toxic positivity and victim blaming is a real concern. Bad thing happen to good people all of the time. It has nothing to do with some twisted Western misconception of “karma”, what they “attracted”, their mindset, or anything like that. COVID-19 isn’t a spiritual disease; it’s what happens when human beings let their selfishness overrule their judgment. Societies that encourage toxic individualism in lieu of taking care of their own will collapse. It’s a similar deal with our own communities. We must support each other, or our communities will collapse.
How do you handle bullying in the pagan/polytheist and occult communities, then?
There have been many articles on how to deal with bullies in a practical sense, whether they are online or in your workplace.
But first, what do bullies look for in their victims?
1. You stand out. This could be good, bad, or a mixture. For better or for worse, for some reason you stand out. It could be due to gender identity, sexuality, religious beliefs, or anything in particular that sets you apart from others. It could be these differences that threatens them. You could be a part of a group that they dislike for whatever reason. Their feeling of being in control is threatened by you. You could remind them of a typical bullies bully because they think they can get away with it. The idea is that they want to feel strong and to make you feel weak. It’s a power dynamic, typically done by people who feel that their own sense of identity and power is threatened. Bosses will do this in order to maintain power over people they feel they can’t control otherwise, and it tends to be a similar deal in pagan, polytheist, and occult environments as well.
Those who see themselves in a position of power that they have to fight for, will fight for it. And they see you as a threat to their position of power. You have power over them in some way, and they are trying to compensate for it. part of themselves they don’t like for whatever reason. You could be better at something than they are, or know more on a topic they are invested in. Either way, they are threatened. You are a threat. Of course, knowing this is a small consolation to people who have had to deal with bullying. Obviously.
Addressing that power dynamic
1. Don’t ever be a party to enabling bullying. Call it out for what it is. If you see something, say something.
2. Be aware that bullies will do anything to avoid facing consequences for their actions. They will gaslight, threaten, intimidate. Don’t let them get away with it.
3. One of the tactics bullies will use is social isolation. Don’t let them isolate you or anyone else. Tell people, get others involved.
4. Stick to the facts, don’t let them move the goalposts or make this into a personal discussion or attack. They want a cat fight, don’t give it to them.
5. If they run a group that you are in, leave that group and if need be, get help or support from others in doing so.
6. Don’t let them have any authority or power over the conversation or the situation.
Some groups will enable bullies naturally and be a haven for cultists and as a cult. What to look for in a group also includes what to avoid in a group and how to tell if a group is unhealthy. One that supports and enables such people is one to be avoided because it’s often how cults start. Also, groups that are cults will use bullies and bullying to keep people in line.
Additions by me:
I know this personally as the Vampire community thinks every Vampyrism is a spiritual condition as well a physical one. I was surprised to hear about this this going on in the pagan communities as I have never had problems in the pagan communities but I know it happens often in the Vampire community especially online which I will share below:
In the online Vampire community I continue to keep having issues with the “Vampire community” how many of them perceive the Vampyran TempleUVUP as a cult like Temple of the Vampire as we are both Temples and they do not want to see Vampyrism as a spiritual condition as well as a physical one. The originally where trying to get me in trouble as a plagiarist who steals copyrighted information as his own; I am a theologian as well as a vampirologist and share information I learn online/books/ect. with the members on the V-TUVUP site to educate the Vampire community on its abilities, capabilities, beginnings as well as focus on the spirituality of Vampyrism. I never claimed to write everything written and always put credit where credit is due (to the original author and original site).

Now I have been having issues because I have Asperger’s (just recently found out as I was diagnosed with Autism and never received help with this early) I struggled in school quite a bit as falsely diagnosed with just ADHD and was never able to go to college because of this as well as because we were poor. I get crapped on all the time because of my grammar and how I communicate online BUT I struggle with this it constantly and it torments me to no end. I did write a couple books though the first one was just the basic principles for the second book but in the past they went on and on about the grammer and mistakes I made writing it (though on the second book I did have some help from our previous Spiritual Mother Samantha Adams and now for some time I have been struggling with writers block. I honestly am not sure I will ever be able to write another book again as it is so very difficult for someone with my conditions to explain everything the proper way and people have issues understanding me. Although my writer's block is about gone...


I created groups for other such people here:


the Alternative Counseling for Alternative People:



and D.A.A.D. - Dark Alternatives Against Discrimination:



Vampyres are the predators of humans
Posted by JP the DDG Aspie Vamp on Thursday, August 13, 2020 at 7:47:14 PM

Original post:  Friday, February 24, 2012



We are the predators of humans and that is not always a bad thing 



I believe that the food chain is set up as predator and prey; some how it the definitions got changed and that screwed everything up similar to the way fiction and Hollywood screwed up our name "Vampire". Not all Predators kill there Prey but they take just what they need to survive such as mosquitoes, tapeworms, and even bats ect. It is funny because we don’t want to be compared to Vampire bats or parasites such as these but that is one similarity many of us have. The difference however is most do not take too much or enough to hurt those we take from and it is usually given freely or should be. So even though we do not kill our Prey (well most of us with morals anyways) the humans are our prey.




A God is not just one gender
Posted by JP the DDG Aspie Vamp on Tuesday, February 4, 2020 at 6:43:11 PM

I do not get why people assume that a god MUST be male? The term GOD (not just goddess) should not have anything to do with gender or such as gods are not just one Gender and should not be termed so loosely as male or female. A God is a God be he or she male or female they are a God period  both genders have equal power...


2020 time to get back on track and stop worrying
Posted by JP the DDG Aspie Vamp on Saturday, February 1, 2020 at 9:00:00 PM
I must warn you I have a hard time explaining myself as I am Autistic so please I hope my words don't confuse you as most regular peoples words often confuse me. Anyways I was reading a pagan blog online and I realized I need to stop getting distracted from my spiritual practice. I was struggling for a long time staying motivated to keep up on the TempleUVUP as it has lost its flare and feel like one of the only members keeping the site going but it has been rough as I have had trouble writing for the longest time. It is hard enough for someone like me with my disabilities, lack in money, and being constantly busy to stay motivated when I have constantly struggled with my moods/depression. I want to keep up on praying, keeping up with my rituals, and communicating with the Gods but its hard when you start doubting everything because things get so bad you want to give up...


I have been a member of CUUPS for a long time but was lucky enough to find a Unitarian Universalist congregation in Delaware, Ohio that made me actually want to join a “church” again though they use the term fellowship for the same reason I would lol. They unlike my family or other churches except me for the way I am or have felt comfortable revealing to them anyways. I thought I would never go to church again but I realized church is good for people sometimes because it makes us feel connected where someone like me feels disconnected from the world and that I will never fit in. However they except me and I hope one day I can not be worried about not worried about what anyone thinks.​ I normally do not feel like I fit in anywhere: in my city, with my family, as well as in my communities (vampire, pagan, and goth) ​but I feel comfortable there​ and actually look forward to going even though it is really early in the morning lol. I am like no one in my city and most misjudge as they don't understand me; my family also does not understand me and will often not meet me half way with my life choices (as DUUF does).  Vampires often do not want me to believe what we are is a spiritual condition so my house is despised for my personal belief, Goths often despise me because I drink blood and make them look bad, pagans often despise me because I need energy from others to not constantly be sick and fatigue. So I feel all alone in every community even my local fellowship I am too afraid to let them find out as I am sure they could never understand... 


I try to read and meditate but with focus and reading issues it has been harder than it used to be but I am not sure why it was sometimes easier in the past but no longer is the case depending on the book? One thing I know is to many books make it too easy to go off track and use words that I am not sure about seeing as I never went to college and that really makes it hard to want to go on and deal with my stupidity. I used to have the patience and not these things bother me but I can't help the way I feel that it is too difficult for someone like me as it too me too long and was too hard to get the help I needed and yet I am still struggling. I have been working a new job that tires me out and it has been hard to keep on things out of my daily routine I must do in order to relax but relation never seems to come for someone like me so I have not been able to find the time to do what I must do to and do not have time for my spiritual practices, research, and reading. I most certainly need to get back to praying to my spiritual mother for help getting back to my rituals, my reading, writing, and more on my the site and research ect. Now that I found some people to talk to, made a breakthrough in counseling, got some help with my disabilities, and am better with my communication as well as my moods to a point (at least while keeping busy at work) I am hopping things will continue to move forward. This seems even more likely now that I have finally got rid of the writers block I have had for too many years...


© Vampyrian Rev. J P Vanir  


My holidays with the wifes family
Posted by JP the DDG Aspie Vamp on Sunday, December 29, 2019 at 7:54:17 PM
​I went to Bowling Greens to see my step Son Maven after so many long years of missing him​ for Xmas. The first bus ride I did OK with but the crowd was a bit much at the station luckily I got to sit by my wife on the bus so it wasn't too bad. Her poor mom got lost in the fog and we felt really bad about that and I was worried cause Jay was there for the holidays but he was quiet in the car BUT as soon as we got to her moms house he was hyper as hell being as this was all new to him (being severely autistic). I was worried how he would react to me but after a while he seemed do like me pretty well which is odd for him and he even cooed at me Amanda told me which was cute. I was amazed as well the they actually had diet code red at the circle K in Bowling Greens which I have not seen in so many years but I was good and didn't drink pop...
I was told that Sandra wasnt going to actually let us see Maven which was my only Xmas wish this year and the only reason I spent all that money to go there! However I finally after over 13 years got to spend the holidays with the Hernandez family and it went surprisingly very  well. Her Uncle her hates all her boy friends gave me his 25 dollar gift card which we really needed after all this and Amanda got a Taco Bell card as well that she gave to me but got a few things as well. The bus ride home was a nightmare and for some reason we went through Delaware to get to Columbus just to get me home (Delaware) I wish the would have just dropped me off on the side of the road in Delaware because it was crowded and I couldn't sit by my wife. I was miserable and claustrophobic as hell and the Columbus ghetto is never better when so many people ask me for money and cigarettes and I am no help to anyone...
But despite all that once safe at home and in my comfort zone again I realize although I did not see Maven though I was depressed for quite a while I was excepted by her family which which made for what I was beginning to regret. I get so scared to be put in such positions and so nervous to meet them as well as being out of my comfort zone but slowly I am getting better at such things. I thought after New York I would never never leave home again but since I have already been to BG I new I would be OK but the family event and bus ride really scared me but I always survive and at least they like me esp the hard to please uncle...
JP Vanir


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Aug 12th 2019

Aug 12th 2019

How do I change my profile pic?

Aug 12th 2019

Thank you very much for the welcome!! I'm an admin on Witches moon, and also I wish you a very happy birthday!!

Aug 12th 2019

Happy Magical Birthday JP Vanir! :)


Jun 8th 2019

Awesome! Was going to leave comment on druid post-but coulnd"t,just the way you have the closed comments I know:))

Aug 12th 2018

Happy Birthday...Hope you have a magickal day..Enjoy!

Aug 8th 2018
Thank you for your endless work. I really appreciate it.
Apr 24th 2018

Thank you hun. I'll get to those groups soon as I can. I will be offline a little while, I have neck surgery day after tomorrow. But I will get back here very soon. Love, and hugsss!

Apr 1st 2018

Mar 11th 2018

taking some time off of being on the internet doing spring cleaning in my 3 bedroom house and packing up most of it to move soon

not sure how long it will take getting old and have health issues and bad back etc, so please dont delete me, i may pop in from time to time and make a few themes on my site if i have time but will be away from all other site for a while, bb, snowwolf

Dec 18th 2017

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Oct 1st 2017

How's your Sunday? Like Boo! Hahahha! Saw you on......over on SH&S reading Huntewrs group:)

Sep 30th 2017

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Great profile pic JP!:))

Sep 19th 2017

OK! All set:))

Sep 19th 2017

Take a look now-changed the header pages to red:)

Sep 18th 2017

Sent you message on admn situation-also are you able to get in as me on profile? That way you can see what is going on:)

Sep 18th 2017

I'll head over to my site and see what I can figure out and remeber how to do this-brb:)

Sep 17th 2017

If you were wanting some themes for your front page or site JP,let me know-I can do some up for you,or I can start a Vampire Themes group-let me know:)) Of course for free:)

Sep 17th 2017

vampire girlThanks JP:))

Sep 14th 2017

Here is a late "Thank You" for your kind Welcome.

May you and yours be well, noble brother.

AnkHaRa .*.

Oct 21st 2016

Mar 1st 2016

Hello JP!!!! Just looking around,and reading up on the Spiritual side of things:))) Thanks for acceptance!!

Dec 2nd 2015
Thank you for adding me on here! :)
Oct 26th 2015

Of course we allow therians and the otherkin.

Oct 24th 2015

I finally made it here!

Oct 15th 2015
Just wondering if you allow therian members ?

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